Some adjustments are needed from you right now. Sag, we know you love things your way, but you must also remember that finding peace and quiet through inner calm and poise takes effort. It is, however, worth far more than simply going to war at the drop of a hat. Your current phase in life does not require you to fight every fight. It requires you to know which battles are worth picking.
Cosmic tip: Sometimes bending helps you live to fight another day.